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February 22, 2012, 9:50 am

Quote: Originally Posted by just-breathe We were told to let them talk, but not to ask questions. Just to say things like, "I'm sure that was scary/that made you sad/etc" to validate their feelings. Then report it ASAP. They can get an investigator and/or counselor...

February 22, 2012, 7:34 am

Quote: Originally Posted by dazzlingdeb Um, not to sound judgmental, but the goal of fostering is to help children, not keep your house full of children and stipends (sorry, I know that sounds crass). A child did something terrible yes, he's not innocent but please remember...

February 22, 2012, 11:03 am

I do think certain workers take different types of abuse differently, whereas others don't. The filthy house thing especially annoys me as I've had two placements with children who had been living in homes that had been deemed not fit for human habitation when they were removed. The children are...

February 22, 2012, 10:51 am

good for mom! good for Curly! good for you! where there is life, there is hope. there is always hope!

February 22, 2012, 9:43 am

my 5 and a half year old FS was diagnosed with PDD last week. I am doing a ton of research on the matter and am contacting some local autism resources. I knew that something was off on him. he is socially and communicatively ( is that even a word?? LOL) very behind, and he seems lost in his...

February 22, 2012, 8:55 am

Quote: Originally Posted by ilovekids12 I just found out yesterday that the sibling group I fell in love with have been "matched"...I am heartbroken I know there is a chance that parents will change their minds, but who knows how many other families are...

February 22, 2012, 8:43 am

If you call the ph num they will have to put out a search for it. Been over a week. I am so sorry. Such a stresser.

February 22, 2012, 8:17 am

Awww what a fun time in your home. You sound experienced this should be a nice placement for you. Remember to take pics!

February 22, 2012, 8:17 am

Sounds like the perfect placement (for me anyway!). I hope to be joining the ranks soon...still waiting on license! Hope to have it next month and then I hope to come here and report my placements!

February 22, 2012, 8:16 am

We are CC, our oldest two are CC, son is Hispanic and who knows what, baby girl is Asian. Being placed with an Asian baby is pretty unheard of in the world of fc where we live. We were looking for another Hispanic child, but were more than willing to accept baby girl!!! A lot of people keep...

February 22, 2012, 8:14 am

I can't recall if I changed mine after TPR or after the "official match" happened. But, not before, even though the plan was Adoption from day one. It probably depends on your agency. I do not believe that all agencies do the official match like mine. Here, even if plan is for foster...

February 22, 2012, 8:08 am

Quote: Originally Posted by Kezs I never knew it was illegal to leave a kid in the car if you were going to be just a minute and could see the car the whole time. Is this in all states, or just specific ones? I have run into the gas station to pay, or grab a water for them...

February 22, 2012, 7:26 am

Just out of curiosity, why would you be upset with the match? Do you know something that AW doesn't about this family? Hopefully the interview will go well and you will be happy with the situation and get the answers you need for your peace of mind, good luck

February 22, 2012, 7:04 am

Quote: Originally Posted by RavenSong The social workers I've worked with in the past have all been extremely hard-working and dedicated individuals. Please don't paint all social workers and caseworkers with negative comments. Sure, there are lazy ones, people who should never...

February 22, 2012, 6:40 am

Quote: Originally Posted by shadow riderer If you dig deeper into the mentality of it, add to that character disorders, abusive childhoods, and other mental issues, including trauma, you will find where addiction starts. I don't agree with this statement. It is...